Why is it too soon? Why is it too long?
I agree, of course, long or short engagement does not matter as long as the relationship is bounded by Love. > A Firm-Godly Decision ! And it is taking responsibility to love the other!
If both are mature enough in their decision and has been discerning it for many years. I believe, it is God's divine providence that both of you are 'collided' in this universe. ;). You may not notice it! May be there are factors that has been blocking the 'should be-much awaited' union of two unique - beautiful persons. God is already visibly letting you see, in front of you this 'perfect person' - who is God's best gift for you.
Anyhow, below are some list of the pros and cons of long or short engagement. These will somehow may give you an idea!
Pros for Short Engagement
- Less time to be stressed out about planning
- Not spending a lot of time worrying about everything, so you get over with quickly
- No time to regret decisions or think twice about style
- You have to decide quickly
- You get stressed about the quick planning
- You lose your ability to get your first choice of things - it's ok! ;)
- More time to plan the perfect wedding, and at prices you can afford
- You can pick the date of your choice, venue of choice, get the band you want, and everything else
- You can give guests ample time to prepare. - early notice is better so they can include in their budget - the gifts.;)
Cons for a Long Engagement
- More time to stress about the details and feel pressure
- More time for nerves to kick in
- More time to think if the decision is alright??? (which might be under pros?)
P.S. My Husband and I are a product of short engagement.. ;)
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